The Anchor of your Breath
January 19, 2021The Anchor of your Breath
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- 00:00OK. Once again, good morning everybody and
- 00:03thank you so much for joining for taking
- 00:07the time for meditation and relaxation.
- 00:10My name is Michelle Grant,
- 00:12licensed massage therapists and
- 00:14I work with the oncology patients
- 00:16at Smilow Cancer Hospital.
- 00:18So again, it's a new day, and, um,
- 00:21we never know what's in store,
- 00:23but no matter what, it is good,
- 00:26bad, or indifferent.
- 00:28As we practice mindfulness and meditation,
- 00:30it allows us to control our reaction to no
- 00:34matter what it is that's going on around us.
- 00:38It allows us to stay grounded and
- 00:41just maintain Caminar reaction,
- 00:43which is always a positive thing.
- 00:46The mindfulness practice we're going to be
- 00:49working on today is a breathing anchor.
- 00:52Practice.
- 00:53It's where we're gonna begin to wood
- 00:56awareness into the present moment.
- 00:59Like it anchor that loose a
- 01:02ship into one place.
- 01:05The purpose is to help us dissolve
- 01:07or anxiety, reduce our stress,
- 01:10and just allow our body to
- 01:12heal for a short time,
- 01:14at least two,
- 01:15or relax and peaceful state and it's
- 01:18a state that we can always return to
- 01:22whenever we need to throughout the day.
- 01:25So now as we begin just adopt A
- 01:28comfortable position for yourself,
- 01:30whatever is comfortable for you,
- 01:33you could be sitting in a chair
- 01:36with your feet flat on the ground.
- 01:39Your spine,
- 01:40supported by the back of the chair.
- 01:43You could be laying down.
- 01:46Or you could even be walking as
- 01:49you practice this meditation.
- 01:53Just take a few moments.
- 01:57Just feel your body,
- 01:59relax your shoulders drop.
- 02:03Take a deep breath in through your nose.
- 02:08Hold.
- 02:11And exhale through your mouth.
- 02:16Just feel your spine
- 02:17adapting its natural curves.
- 02:23Allow your body to settle
- 02:25to rest down into gravity,
- 02:27letting it be supported
- 02:29by the floor beneath you.
- 02:32And gently close your eyes if
- 02:35that's comfortable for you.
- 02:37This will help your awareness settle
- 02:40by lessening any external distractions.
- 02:44Gradually allow your awareness
- 02:46to gather around the sensations
- 02:49of the breath in your body.
- 02:54Where do you feel your breath most strongly?
- 03:00This begin to develop a
- 03:02bit of a curiosity about.
- 03:04Your actual experience just letting go
- 03:07of what you think should be happening.
- 03:11And just being with your
- 03:14experience without any judgement.
- 03:17Now very gently West,
- 03:20you're aware NIS within your whole torso.
- 03:29Feel your belly swelling on the in breath.
- 03:34And subsiding on the out breath.
- 03:39Can you feel any movement and
- 03:42sensations with the breath in the
- 03:45sides in the back of the body as well?
- 03:48Discontinue a gentle inhalation.
- 03:57And then X olation.
- 04:01Gradually inhabit your body a
- 04:04little more deeply with a sense of
- 04:08kindly curiosity towards whatever
- 04:10you're experiencing as you breathe.
- 04:17Remember to be accepting
- 04:19of whatever is happening.
- 04:24See if you can cultivate a precise
- 04:27awareness of the sensations an
- 04:30movement of the breath in the body
- 04:33as they happen, moment by moment.
- 04:36Being careful not to strain.
- 04:43Allow your awareness to be utterly
- 04:46receptive as it West Sapana natural
- 04:50movement of the breath in the body.
- 04:53Continue and easy and
- 05:03gentle. Inhalation?
- 05:09An escalation.
- 05:13Allow the breath to be saturated with
- 05:18kindliness as it walks and cradles
- 05:21the body. Soothing any stress.
- 05:26Pain or discomfort. You may feel.
- 05:35Now become aware of any
- 05:38thoughts and emotions.
- 05:40And remember that mindfulness
- 05:43isn't about having a blank mind.
- 05:47It's normal to think.
- 05:50Mindfulness is the training whereby
- 05:53you cultivate awareness of what
- 05:57is actually happening physically.
- 06:00Mentale. And emotionally.
- 06:04So you can gradually change your
- 06:07perspective and feel you have more
- 06:10choice in how you re late to life.
- 06:15Can you look at your thoughts and
- 06:20emotions rather than from them?
- 06:23Can you be aware of what
- 06:25you're thinking and feeling?
- 06:27Without either blocking experience
- 06:31or getting overwhelmed by it.
- 06:35And remember, thoughts are not facts,
- 06:39even though we often think they are.
- 06:44As you develop perspective on
- 06:47your thoughts and emotions,
- 06:50including undermining ones.
- 06:51Can you let go of being so caught up in them?
- 06:59Notice. How they are continually
- 07:02changing one moment to the next?
- 07:06Exactly the same way your
- 07:09breath is always changing.
- 07:15Your thoughts and emotions or not as
- 07:18fixed as solid as you perhaps thought.
- 07:24Using awareness of the movement
- 07:27and sensations of the breath
- 07:30in your body as an anchor for
- 07:33the mind over and over again.
- 07:40Follow the breath all the way in.
- 07:45And. All the way out.
- 07:55And each time your awareness wanders,
- 07:59as it will simply note this
- 08:01and return to the breathing.
- 08:05Anchor time after time.
- 08:08Moment by moment.
- 08:11Making sure you're very kind
- 08:14and patient with yourself,
- 08:16even if you have to start again 100 times.
- 08:25It's OK. And this is what
- 08:28training is all about.
- 08:33And remember that each time
- 08:36you notice you've wandered,
- 08:38it's a magic moment of awareness.
- 08:42A moment where you've woken up from
- 08:46a distraction amoment of choice.
- 08:49So when you catch yourself having
- 08:52wandered off your succeeding in the
- 08:54practice just as you're succeeding when
- 08:57you manage to stay with the breath.
- 09:06Take a moment and think
- 09:09about what's happening now.
- 09:11What do you thinking?
- 09:14Just note this and guide your
- 09:17awareness back to the sensation
- 09:20of the breath and the body over.
- 09:23And over again.
- 09:36now gently begin to bring the
- 09:39breathing anchor practice to a close.
- 09:45If you feel comfortable,
- 09:46you can open your eyes and be
- 09:49aware of the sounds around you
- 09:52inside and outside the room.
- 09:56Fill your whole body and
- 09:59gradually gently begin to move.
- 10:02Making sure you give yourself time
- 10:04to make a smooth transition from
- 10:07the breathing anchor practice.
- 10:09To the present moment in time.
- 10:14Again, take a deep breath in.
- 10:20And exhale through your mouth.
- 10:25Bring your arms out to the sides.
- 10:29Just give a good stretch to
- 10:31the left and to the right.
- 10:36Move your neck around a little bit.
- 10:40Either gentle circles.
- 10:43Or just moving in all directions.
- 10:48And reverse the movement.
- 10:51Another deep breath in.
- 10:57Arms overhead.
- 11:03I had a breath into prayer pose.
- 11:08So this is an excellent exercise that we
- 11:12can initiate throughout the day as we may
- 11:16feel a little stressed and overwhelmed.
- 11:19It's just reminding ourselves basically
- 11:22that our breath is the anchor.
- 11:26It grounds us and it allows us to take
- 11:29a moment to step back from whatever may
- 11:32be going on around us and just maintain
- 11:36control of our thoughts and our reactions.
- 11:39So with that I wish you all health,
- 11:43peace and hapiness a good day and
- 11:45I hope to see you again next week.
- 11:49Take care.