The Field of Psycho-Oncology
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- 00:08Welcome to Yale Cancer Answers with your
- 00:10host doctor Anees Chagpar. Yale Cancer
- 00:13Answers features the latest information
- 00:14on cancer care by welcoming oncologists
- 00:17and specialists who are in the forefront
- 00:19of the battle to fight cancer. This week,
- 00:22it's a conversation about Psycho-
- 00:24Oncology with Doctor Jennifer Kilkus.
- 00:26Dr Kilkus is an assistant professor of
- 00:28psychiatry at the Yale School of Medicine,
- 00:30where Dr Chagpar is a professor
- 00:33of surgical oncology.
- 00:35Maybe we can start off by you telling us a
- 00:37little bit about yourself and what you do.
- 00:40Sure, I am a clinical health psychologist.
- 00:44I've been in practice since about
- 00:462014 and primarily worked in large
- 00:49health systems helping to improve
- 00:51behavioral health and psychological
- 00:53services for cancer patients.
- 00:55So when we talk about
- 00:58psychological services,
- 01:00I think a lot of people get a bit
- 01:03confused about all of the different
- 01:05types of people that we talk about,
- 01:07so we talk about social workers
- 01:10we talk about psychologists,
- 01:12psychiatrists.
- 01:13Can you break it down for us and help
- 01:16us to understand the differences and
- 01:17the nuances between all of those?
- 01:20Absolutely, and that's
- 01:21a great point.
- 01:23I often have to explain to people
- 01:25what's different from what I do versus
- 01:27what a psychiatrist does versus what
- 01:29a clinical social worker does.
- 01:30So a psychologist is someone with
- 01:33a doctoral degree
- 01:35in psychology.
- 01:38What I tell people is I went to school for a very
- 01:40long time to help learn strategies
- 01:42and tools to assist people in
- 01:44managing their emotional and their
- 01:46physical symptoms more effectively.
- 01:48I don't prescribe medication,
- 01:50so that's a big difference between what
- 01:52I do versus what a psychiatrist does,
- 01:55and a psychologist can do
- 01:57many different things.
- 01:58Our degree is pretty versatile,
- 02:00but what I use my degree to do is to focus
- 02:03on intervention therapy.
- 02:06I mainly provide therapy
- 02:09services for cancer patients using
- 02:11my degree and a social worker is pretty
- 02:13similar as far as what they do.
- 02:16They also have a lot of variability
- 02:19in what they can do with their degree.
- 02:21Clinical social workers may provide
- 02:23psychotherapy services as well.
- 02:25They may also,
- 02:26for example,
- 02:27we have clinical social workers who provide
- 02:31navigation services for our patients.
- 02:33Help get them connected to
- 02:35resources and their degree
- 02:36is just not quite as long as a PhD,
- 02:38so their degree usually runs between
- 02:41around three years or so versus
- 02:43I believe I wrapped up finally about
- 02:45seven years in to my doctoral program.
- 02:48And so when people also refer to counselors,
- 02:52are those psychologists?
- 02:55Are those social workers?
- 02:57Is that a different group
- 02:59of people altogether?
- 03:00Or is that just a term that's used
- 03:03interchangeably for people who
- 03:04provide counseling services as
- 03:06part of their scope of care?
- 03:09It's generally used interchangeably with
- 03:11psychotherapy or therapy counseling,
- 03:14but there are folks that have a specific
- 03:16degree and they're called licensed
- 03:18Professional counselors and those
- 03:20degrees tend to be around two to three
- 03:22years as well before they can be licensed
- 03:24independently to provide counseling.
- 03:26But it seems to be that people use the term
- 03:29counseling interchangeable with therapy.
- 03:32And here at Yale Cancer Answers,
- 03:35we're often talking about cancer
- 03:37patients in their journey.
- 03:39So talk a little bit about how
- 03:43mental health, which seems to
- 03:46be a really big topic right now,
- 03:48kind of plays into the
- 03:50cancer patients journey.
- 03:51At the top of the show,
- 03:52we kind of talked about
- 03:55we were going to
- 03:56talk about Psycho Oncology,
- 03:58so maybe you can give us a
- 04:00definition of what that is and
- 04:02how mental health plays
- 04:04into a cancer patients journey?
- 04:06Sure, psycho Oncology is a subspecialty
- 04:09of the field of health psychology,
- 04:13which is applying biological, physiological,
- 04:18social and psychological understanding
- 04:20of disease to help understand how
- 04:24people cope and also how we can use
- 04:27understanding of those processes
- 04:29to help people change behaviors.
- 04:32For example, smoking cessation
- 04:35or helping people adhere to screening
- 04:38recommendations and psycho oncology
- 04:40specifically is applying those behavioral
- 04:44and social science ideas to the
- 04:46challenges that cancer patients face,
- 04:48specifically, which are many,
- 04:50the treatments for cancer.
- 04:52It can be so challenging in harsh
- 04:55and taxing on the body that those
- 04:57things can trigger some symptoms that
- 05:00we would classify as mental health.
- 05:02Or vice versa,
- 05:03mental health symptoms could worsen
- 05:05some of the challenges that come along
- 05:08with cancer treatments alongside just
- 05:10the general idea of of being diagnosed
- 05:13with the Big C, such
- 05:16a life threatening and scary disease,
- 05:18which as you could imagine,
- 05:20would make anybody feel fearful.
- 05:22But the treatments also tend to
- 05:25compound those things and make that
- 05:27struggle a little bit more challenging.
- 05:29And so psycho oncologists really
- 05:31focus on helping patients
- 05:33manage both the emotional and the
- 05:35physical side of cancer treatments
- 05:37and well into survivorship as well.
- 05:39You know when you were talking,
- 05:41it seemed to me that there's really different
- 05:44groups of patients that I could see
- 05:47your services being useful for,
- 05:50so they're the patients
- 05:53who are well who have not yet
- 05:55been diagnosed with the big C,
- 05:57but who may be at risk.
- 05:59So when you were talking
- 06:02about behavior modification,
- 06:03smoking cessation we know that smoking
- 06:05is a key driver of many cancers.
- 06:08A patient may not have been
- 06:10diagnosed with cancer yet
- 06:12but your services would still be
- 06:15helpful in helping patients to
- 06:17quit smoking or other
- 06:20lifestyle modifications.
- 06:21We've talked on this show about obesity,
- 06:24for example,
- 06:25and getting people into the right
- 06:28mindset to to adopt those healthy behaviors.
- 06:32So that's one group of patients.
- 06:33And then there's the cancer patients.
- 06:35And then there's the survivors.
- 06:36So in talking about these three
- 06:38categories of patients, I guess,
- 06:40can you dive a little bit more into
- 06:43the strategies that you would use in
- 06:46helping the first group of patients?
- 06:48The patients who,
- 06:49and I'm sure many of our listeners
- 06:51right now are thinking,
- 06:53especially with the new
- 06:54year just around the corner,
- 06:56I really ought to develop
- 06:58some healthier habits.
- 06:59I know that these habits that I currently
- 07:01have, over eating, not exercising,
- 07:04smoking, drinking,
- 07:04and so on and so forth increase
- 07:07my risk of cancer.
- 07:08But how can I
- 07:12help myself to set some resolutions
- 07:15and behavior modification that can help?
- 07:18Can you give people some tips and
- 07:20also tell us when they should
- 07:22start seeking out professional
- 07:24help to make those behavior
- 07:27lifestyle modifications?
- 07:29We are lucky in that we have
- 07:31a very robust tool in our tool belt
- 07:35called cognitive behavioral therapy
- 07:36which some may have heard of that is
- 07:39really considered the gold standard in
- 07:42managing depression and anxiety symptoms,
- 07:45but has been more studied in recent years
- 07:48on how we can use CBT to help manage
- 07:51both those behavioral changes you're
- 07:54mentioning as well as emotional issues
- 07:57moving forward. Whether
- 07:59you're talking about a cancer patient
- 08:01or someone who just wants to make
- 08:03some changes because behavior is not
- 08:05something that exists in isolation.
- 08:08Behavior also exists in response
- 08:10to how we think about things and
- 08:13how we feel about things and so
- 08:15CBT focuses on the relationship
- 08:18between our thoughts, our behaviors,
- 08:21our emotions, and more recently,
- 08:23research has focused on the
- 08:25physical sensations as well.
- 08:27An example,
- 08:28maybe if you're feeling anxious,
- 08:30people tend to have changes in their body.
- 08:33Their heart may race.
- 08:34They may have difficulty
- 08:36with hyperventilation,
- 08:37which is something that
- 08:38when it's intense enough,
- 08:40could actually bring someone to the
- 08:42emergency room because they think that
- 08:44they may be having a heart attack and
- 08:46so CBT looks at those four components,
- 08:48and prioritizes which of these things
- 08:50seems to be the biggest barrier for making
- 08:54the changes that you want to change.
- 08:57So one thing that I notice a lot in practice
- 09:00when folks want to make some
- 09:02kind of behavior change as they
- 09:03tend to go really big at first,
- 09:05and then they inevitably end up not
- 09:08getting where they want to go because
- 09:11they may have set those goals too
- 09:13high in the beginning instead of
- 09:15maybe starting slow and just
- 09:17taking some time to reach their goal.
- 09:20And you could imagine if you've
- 09:22done that over and over again,
- 09:24you may start to have thoughts like Oh well,
- 09:26what's the point? Why even bother?
- 09:27I can't do this,
- 09:28and then you may throw in the towel.
- 09:30And so when you're
- 09:32meeting with someone like myself,
- 09:35to focus on those issues,
- 09:37we want to know what has been
- 09:39difficult about getting to the place
- 09:40where you want to go in the past.
- 09:42And usually it follows in one of those
- 09:44categories of thoughts, behaviors,
- 09:46emotions or physical sensations.
- 09:49And I would suggest for someone if
- 09:51they're thinking about whether or not
- 09:53they need to work with a professional,
- 09:55is how successful have you
- 09:57been in the past,
- 09:58and are you able to identify where
- 10:00you might have gotten off the
- 10:02path of where you wanted to go?
- 10:04And if you're not sure, if it feels
- 10:05like you need someone to help work
- 10:07with you to set some clear goals
- 10:09and have some accountability and
- 10:11work with you on building momentum,
- 10:12then that might be a time to reach
- 10:14out to a professional for some help.
- 10:17And so in order to do that,
- 10:20how do people access
- 10:22Psychological services?
- 10:23Do they go through their family doctor
- 10:25or do people come to you just straight
- 10:28off the street and say, you know,
- 10:30I'm interested in
- 10:33quitting smoking.
- 10:34I'm interested in losing weight.
- 10:36How do people generally find
- 10:39psychologists and psychiatrists
- 10:40and counselors and social workers
- 10:43to help them with these with
- 10:45these behavioral modifications?
- 10:46If they haven't been diagnosed
- 10:48with cancer yet?
- 10:50There are a lot of different avenues for
- 10:52that, but oftentimes people may find
- 10:54a provider through their insurance,
- 10:56as insurance will list what services
- 10:58are covered and who are the
- 11:00providers that take your insurance.
- 11:02People also find me through word of mouth,
- 11:04so they might have a friend or a family
- 11:07member who had spoken to me at one point,
- 11:08or they may have heard me speak at a
- 11:11group and people can also search different
- 11:15websites that host different
- 11:18platforms for finding a provider.
- 11:20For someone like myself,
- 11:22I'm a board certified clinical
- 11:24health psychologist,
- 11:25so I have a specialty in health and
- 11:27you can search specifically for that.
- 11:29A board certified clinical health
- 11:31psychologist through the American Board
- 11:33of Professional Psychology to find
- 11:35folks in your state that have that
- 11:37designation and would likely be more
- 11:39able to help in the realm of health change.
- 11:43Great information, all right.
- 11:45Let's look at the second category
- 11:49so the newly diagnosed cancer
- 11:51patient, you can imagine,
- 11:54when you've
- 11:55been given that diagnosis,
- 11:57your world kind of turns upside down,
- 11:59and it's not uncommon for people
- 12:03to a have anxiety, but
- 12:06it may also turn into,
- 12:10you know, depression.
- 12:11Some people may turn to substance abuse.
- 12:15They may have issues in terms of
- 12:18relationships, especially because
- 12:19it's not just the patient
- 12:21going through that diagnosis,
- 12:23it also affects family,
- 12:25workplaces, and so on and so forth.
- 12:28How do you manage dealing with
- 12:31all of that when patients are
- 12:34newly diagnosed with cancer?
- 12:37It is a lot, and if you think about it,
- 12:39it really does affect almost
- 12:41every aspect of someone's life.
- 12:43Maybe not everyone all of the time,
- 12:45but even things like work.
- 12:47If somebody is so sick that they
- 12:48can't make it to work anymore,
- 12:50then they might start having
- 12:52financial problems.
- 12:52Maybe they can't perform the same
- 12:54roles that they did in their
- 12:56household and that might lead to
- 12:58some relationship conflict.
- 13:00Not to mention the physiological aspects
- 13:02of the cancer treatment itself.
- 13:04So there are a lot of different
- 13:06ways folks can struggle through this
- 13:10process and I keep coming
- 13:12back to CBT because it's just such
- 13:13a handy tool because it's such a
- 13:15big umbrella and there's so many
- 13:16different things that we can do with that.
- 13:19But again,
- 13:20we can breakdown what are the challenges?
- 13:22Are they controllable or uncontrollable?
- 13:25If they're controllable,
- 13:25we might problem solve or help
- 13:27resolve some of the barriers and that
- 13:29way of looking at what are concrete
- 13:31steps that someone could take,
- 13:32or if it's uncontrollable then
- 13:34we look at managing the emotion
- 13:36and maybe helping choose
- 13:37coping strategies that are more
- 13:39helpful. Things like substance abuse,
- 13:41those kinds of things tend to help
- 13:42really well in the short term,
- 13:44and that's why people do them.
- 13:45But they're not the best for long
- 13:47term coping or for long term health,
- 13:49and so we can help someone
- 13:50get the big picture of
- 13:52what are the biggest issues and
- 13:54prioritizing the ones that are
- 13:56most important.
- 13:57Starting with that controllable,
- 13:59uncontrollable framework and then
- 14:01using the tools that CBT provides
- 14:03us to help get more specific.
- 14:05We'll talk a lot more about what
- 14:07things people can do from
- 14:09a practical standpoint,
- 14:10right after we take a short
- 14:12break for a medical minute.
- 14:13Please stay tuned to learn more
- 14:15about The Field of Psycho-Oncology with my
- 14:17guest doctor Jennifer Kilkus.
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- 15:39Welcome back to Yale Cancer Answers.
- 15:42This is doctor Anees Chagpar
- 15:44and I'm joined tonight by my
- 15:45guest Doctor Jennifer Kilkus.
- 15:47We're learning about her work
- 15:48in the field of Psycho oncology
- 15:50and right before the break
- 15:52Jennifer, you were telling us about
- 15:54the role that Psycho oncology
- 15:56can play for a cancer patient whose
- 15:59world may have been just shattered with a
- 16:01new diagnosis who may be facing anxiety,
- 16:04who may be facing issues of
- 16:07depression or substance abuse,
- 16:08who may have issues in their work,
- 16:10in their relationships,
- 16:13and I'm just wondering a few things.
- 16:15So first of all, does every patient,
- 16:18every cancer patient,
- 16:19need a Psycho oncologist?
- 16:21Is that something that they should be
- 16:23talking to their oncologist about?
- 16:24Or is it only the patients who are
- 16:27really struggling with that diagnosis
- 16:29that should be asking for that service?
- 16:32I would say that no,
- 16:34it's actually surprising that many
- 16:36cancer patients are able to cope just
- 16:38fine with the resources that they
- 16:40have available in their community.
- 16:42So they might have a really
- 16:44strong social support network,
- 16:45or they may already have a provider in
- 16:50the community and we estimate somewhere
- 16:53around 30 to 40% of patients may
- 16:56meet criteria for a major depressive
- 16:58disorder and anxiety disorder at some
- 17:00point throughout their diagnosis
- 17:02and their treatment,
- 17:03depending on which measures we're using
- 17:05and which researcher we're asking.
- 17:06But for the most part,
- 17:08many patients tend to cope very well
- 17:11despite how challenging this can be.
- 17:13So I would say for patients who
- 17:16really feel like these symptoms are
- 17:18persisting and they're really finding
- 17:20it hard to get by with their day-to-day
- 17:23activities because of their symptoms,
- 17:25that would be a good time to talk
- 17:27to your oncologist about connecting
- 17:28with someone for some help.
- 17:30The other thing that strikes me
- 17:32is that very much like we've seen
- 17:35with mental health in general,
- 17:38it seems to be something that a lot
- 17:40of people don't want to talk about.
- 17:41They don't want to admit they oftentimes
- 17:44feel like they may be perceived
- 17:47as being quote weak if they admit
- 17:50that they're struggling to cope.
- 17:53And how do you get over that?
- 17:55What advice do you have for people to
- 17:58broach that subject with their physician
- 18:00so that they can start getting some help?
- 18:03I am so glad that you brought that up
- 18:05because if I had a number one soapbox issue,
- 18:08it would be the messaging that we get not
- 18:10just with cancer but in our culture as a
- 18:13whole about those narratives of having
- 18:15to be strong and struggle through things.
- 18:17And those types of narratives really
- 18:20make it difficult for people to
- 18:22acknowledge that they may be struggling
- 18:25and reach out for help,
- 18:26because the message that they get everywhere
- 18:29that they look at is that is somehow wrong,
- 18:31or that you're failing in some way.
- 18:33But the reality is,
- 18:35that most people struggle with this,
- 18:38and that's what's more normal.
- 18:39It's more normal to struggle
- 18:41and to have difficulty with
- 18:43challenging situations in our lives,
- 18:45and we don't often give people an
- 18:48opportunity to have that witness.
- 18:50And so if there are folks listening
- 18:52who have struggled with that,
- 18:54I would just encourage you to
- 18:58question where that came from,
- 19:00and if you would have the same
- 19:02types of expectations
- 19:04if somebody that you cared about in your
- 19:05life thought that.
- 19:07Because oftentimes
- 19:09we're very hard on ourselves in a way
- 19:11that we wouldn't be for other people,
- 19:13and I think that of course,
- 19:16as a psychologist,
- 19:16this is easy for me to say,
- 19:18but I think that asking for help is
- 19:20the biggest sign of strength because
- 19:22you're acknowledging that this is
- 19:24something that you can't manage on your own,
- 19:26and that's risky.
- 19:27It's vulnerable,
- 19:28and so it's possible to feel that
- 19:31and still ask for help.
- 19:33It's possible to
- 19:34push through that and in speaking
- 19:36with an oncologist,
- 19:37all of them have seen people struggling
- 19:39at different points of their diagnosis.
- 19:43And so it's not a surprise if you do
- 19:46even just a little bit of research,
- 19:48if you just Google,
- 19:49say cancer and anxiety or cancer and stress,
- 19:52you'll see how common it is and
- 19:54how common it is to ask for help
- 19:56and how many different avenues
- 19:57there may be out there for support.
- 20:00I think that one key message for
- 20:03people whether you've been diagnosed with
- 20:06cancer or not is that it's OK to not be OK.
- 20:09And it's OK to say I'm not OK and I
- 20:12could really use some help and the
- 20:15good news is that help is out there,
- 20:19but sometimes that help needs to be asked
- 20:22for because people don't have ESP, right?
- 20:24So you need to kind of take that
- 20:27step and I agree with you, it's a
- 20:29vulnerable step, right?
- 20:30But it's OK to say I'm not OK,
- 20:34and I think more and more people
- 20:36now are realizing that,
- 20:38and so I hope that that message gets across.
- 20:42But the other thing I think that is
- 20:46really helpful is for people to understand
- 20:49in a practical and pragmatic way,
- 20:51what is the benefit of seeing
- 20:54a mental health provider,
- 20:55whether it's a psychologist, a psychiatrist,
- 20:58a counselor or social worker,.
- 20:59Can you provide us
- 21:02some tangible benefits that you get
- 21:04because some people may be thinking OK,
- 21:07what are
- 21:08they gonna do?
- 21:10I mean,
- 21:10we're going to talk about my
- 21:11childhood or something,
- 21:13and I think that there's a lot of
- 21:16misperceptions about what exactly you
- 21:18do and what are the tangible benefits
- 21:21of working with a counselor or mental
- 21:24health professional to kind of cope
- 21:27with either the physical symptoms
- 21:29or the psychological symptoms.
- 21:32Or simply to get through the day
- 21:34and cope with all of the peripheral
- 21:36things that are happening with you
- 21:39in terms of relationships at home,
- 21:41at work, and so on.
- 21:44And I've heard all
- 21:45of those things and more when I
- 21:47meet someone for the first time,
- 21:49so they have gotten over that hump of OK,
- 21:52I'm going to make an appointment.
- 21:53I'm going to go to the appointment,
- 21:54but what do we do now?
- 21:56There is a lot of misinformation and
- 21:59misunderstanding about what psychologists
- 22:01and counselors and social workers do.
- 22:03There are some that focus on understanding
- 22:06how your childhood shaped who you are today.
- 22:08When we're dealing with something like cancer
- 22:11and something that's very here and now,
- 22:13we're focused on what tools are the most
- 22:16useful for helping improve your symptoms
- 22:18and helping improve your quality of life.
- 22:21And so to use an example that I see often,
- 22:24fatigue is one of the biggest challenges
- 22:27that cancer patients experience as they're
- 22:29going through their treatment and well
- 22:32beyond when their treatment is completed
- 22:34and if we're using looking at how CBT
- 22:37skills vary based and a present moment
- 22:39focused approach could help with that.
- 22:42I would work with someone on
- 22:45identifying what behaviors might be
- 22:47continuing that cycle of fatigue,
- 22:49and oftentimes with fatigue comes
- 22:50depression and when we feel
- 22:52depressed or when we feel like we
- 22:54can't do the things we used to do,
- 22:56a lot of people tend
- 22:57to withdraw and so they may struggle
- 22:59to do the activities that used to bring
- 23:02them pleasure or feel meaningful to them,
- 23:04or they may be spending a lot of
- 23:06time in bed or on the couch and those
- 23:09things unfortunately tend to make
- 23:10both fatigue and depression worse.
- 23:12So we might focus on how can we gradually
- 23:16increase activity overtime and in a way
- 23:19that balances both energy and mood.
- 23:22So paying attention to what things
- 23:24have the biggest bang for the buck
- 23:26for improving mood and energy.
- 23:28And building up slowly over time
- 23:29again so we don't get into a cycle
- 23:31where we're doing too much
- 23:32and then the bottom drops out and and we
- 23:35just give up because it's too difficult.
- 23:38And so you can see how
- 23:41in that scenario,
- 23:42I'm not providing advice.
- 23:43I'm also not talking about anybody's
- 23:45childhood.
- 23:46I'm suggesting skills and strategies
- 23:48that are focused on the problem at hand.
- 23:51And what could actually be done
- 23:53to help improve things overtime.
- 23:56Yeah, I think that's
- 23:57so important.
- 23:59And it really is, you know,
- 24:00kind of tangible advice like guidance.
- 24:03Just like a coach.
- 24:05You know when you're a kid and
- 24:07you're playing Little League or
- 24:09or you're learning the piano.
- 24:11You always have a teacher or a
- 24:13coach who's trying to make you
- 24:14better and and give you those tips.
- 24:16Those skills that will help
- 24:18you in improving whatever it
- 24:20is you're trying to improve.
- 24:22And I think working with a mental
- 24:26health professional in that way may
- 24:29provide you those same kinds of skill
- 24:31sets that will help you to overcome
- 24:34the challenges that come with that.
- 24:37I think the other piece though is
- 24:40the emotional piece and you know,
- 24:42dealing with just the huge array of emotions
- 24:46that you get with a cancer diagnosis.
- 24:49And for some people I think that so
- 24:52much can compound one thing on top of
- 24:55another thing on top of another thing.
- 24:58And there are cases where
- 25:01people can actually get
- 25:04suicidal with all of the things
- 25:07building up leading to outcomes
- 25:09that really didn't need to happen.
- 25:12So talk a little bit about how people
- 25:15can overcome some of the emotional
- 25:17baggage and all of the things that
- 25:20just seem to layer on when they're
- 25:23going through a cancer journey where
- 25:26you know sometimes it just feels like
- 25:29there's a tiny straw that can
- 25:31break the camels back.
- 25:33And I think that's
- 25:34exactly what happens,
- 25:35and I often talk to people about
- 25:38that these aren't as if we were
- 25:40dealing with each stressor individually.
- 25:42They do become something different
- 25:44when they compound like that and
- 25:46and they become something bigger
- 25:47and more more difficult to manage,
- 25:49but I think the strategy is the
- 25:51same as teasing apart all those
- 25:53different pieces that are tangled up
- 25:55and looking at them one by one and
- 25:57how they interact with each other.
- 25:59And so it may be that someone,
- 26:02like the example that I mentioned,
- 26:04comes with more behaviorally
- 26:07motivated symptoms where they're
- 26:09having a hard time connecting
- 26:11with people or they've withdrawn,
- 26:13and it may be that somebody is coming
- 26:15to me with more symptoms that are more
- 26:17driven by the thoughts that they have like,
- 26:19this is hopeless,
- 26:20or I'm never going to get past this,
- 26:23and so we would just take those pieces one
- 26:25at a time and address them as they come,
- 26:28and oftentimes they have a downstream effect.
- 26:31So once you can start
- 26:32getting some distance from
- 26:34thoughts and thinking about them in
- 26:36a more objective or balanced way,
- 26:38then it may become easier to do some
- 26:40of the things behaviorally that might
- 26:42also help you feel better and vice versa.
- 26:45And so it's not
- 26:47I wouldn't say a simple process or
- 26:49or maybe it is a simple process,
- 26:51but not an easy one,
- 26:53but that's why it's helpful
- 26:55to have someone like a coach.
- 26:56And that's why I often think of
- 26:58myself like a coach or like a teacher
- 27:00to help observe those things.
- 27:02And help point out where can we start
- 27:04so that we can have the most success
- 27:07the quickest and then go from there.
- 27:10I think that that's so key, is
- 27:13that oftentimes when you're feeling
- 27:14overwhelmed like it's just one thing
- 27:16on top of another thing on top of
- 27:19another thing on top of another thing,
- 27:21it's sometimes helpful to have an
- 27:24objective lens and outside person
- 27:26to kind of break things down for you
- 27:29into little pieces and to give you
- 27:32some skills to understand how you can
- 27:34deal with each of the little pieces.
- 27:37It might be more manageable
- 27:39than trying to deal with
- 27:40the overwhelm of many things
- 27:43all compounded at once.
- 27:45And actually if we look at what happens
- 27:48physiologically and neurologically
- 27:49when we become overwhelmed,
- 27:51it's actually really difficult to
- 27:53do that for ourselves because our
- 27:55frontal lobe is really what helps
- 27:57us think through things clearly and
- 27:59problem solve and to sort through
- 28:02things and organize for ourselves.
- 28:04And when we're feeling very emotional,
- 28:06that part of our brain isn't
- 28:08activated as much. Instead,
- 28:09the part of our brain,
- 28:11our amygdala, is really on
- 28:13overdrive in our sympathetic nervous system.
- 28:16That's our fight or flight response.
- 28:17That's what our body does when
- 28:19we're in danger.
- 28:20When it thinks we're in danger, it
- 28:22really takes over,
- 28:23and it becomes very challenging
- 28:24to think clearly,
- 28:25and that's part of the reason why
- 28:27it's so helpful to have someone
- 28:29outside to be able to objectively
- 28:30help guide you through those things.
- 28:33Doctor Jennifer Kilkus is an
- 28:34assistant professor of psychiatry
- 28:36at the Yale School of Medicine.
- 28:38If you have questions,
- 28:40the address is cancer answers at
- 28:42Yale.edu and past editions of the
- 28:44program are available in audio and
- 28:47written form at yalecancercenter.org.
- 28:48We hope you'll join us next week to
- 28:51learn more about the fight against
- 28:53cancer here on Connecticut Public Radio.
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